{"id":8932,"date":"2025-01-02T21:55:43","date_gmt":"2024-01-01T12:42:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reelsindir.net\/?p=2551"},"modified":"2025-01-02T21:55:43","modified_gmt":"2024-01-01T12:42:58","slug":"basarili-insanlarin-paylastigi-4-ortak-ozellik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/?p=8932","title":{"rendered":"Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 \u0130nsanlar\u0131n Payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 4 Ortak \u00d6zellik"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan nedir ? Zekalar\u0131 m\u0131 yoksa \u015fanslar\u0131 m\u0131? Kesin bir form\u00fcl\u00fc ve tan\u0131m\u0131 olmamakla beraber, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ki\u015filerin bir\u00e7ok ortak \u00f6zelli\u011fi vard\u0131r.<span id=\"more-105036\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Uzun y\u0131llar ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar hakk\u0131nda ara\u015ft\u0131rma yapan\u00a0<strong>Robert Greene<\/strong>, en son kitab\u0131 olan \u201cMastery\u201d de bu ki\u015filerin ortak \u00f6zelliklerine de\u011finmektedir. \u0130\u015fte ba\u015far\u0131 yolunda sa\u011flam ad\u0131mlar atmak isteyenlere, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olman\u0131n ipu\u00e7lar\u0131:<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Yapt\u0131klar\u0131 i\u015fe kar\u015f\u0131 duygusal ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 var.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Hangimiz yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fe g\u00f6n\u00fclden ba\u011fl\u0131y\u0131z?<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015far\u0131 yolunda t\u0131rmanmak, emin ad\u0131mlar atmak isteyenler i\u00e7in alt\u0131n kural\u0131m\u0131z bu asl\u0131nda. E\u011fer yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fin en iyisini yapmak istiyorsan\u0131z, en ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131lar\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi; \u00f6ncelikle i\u015finize g\u00f6n\u00fclden ba\u011flanmal\u0131, i\u015finize kar\u015f\u0131 duygusal bir ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k hissetmelisiniz.<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4><strong>Di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n ne s\u00f6yledi\u011fini \u00f6nemsemezler.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde pek \u00e7o\u011fumuz Facebook \u00fczerinden arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n hakk\u0131m\u0131zda ne s\u00f6yledi\u011fini, neyi be\u011fenip neyi be\u011fenmedi\u011fini saatlerce inceleriz. Fakat ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131nda bu t\u00fcr yorumlar\u0131 g\u00f6z ard\u0131 etmek var.<\/p>\n<p>Di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n yorumlar\u0131na g\u00f6re de\u011fil, kendinizi ger\u00e7ekten tan\u0131y\u0131p kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinize g\u00f6re hareket etmelisiniz.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Telefonlar\u0131n\u0131 ne zaman kapatmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini bilirler.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>\u00c7evremizde bulunan bir\u00e7ok dikkat da\u011f\u0131tacak unsurla birlikte ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Bunlardan en \u00f6nemlisi ak\u0131ll\u0131 telefonlar\u0131m\u0131z. Kendimizi s\u0131k s\u0131k \u201cCevaps\u0131z aramam var m\u0131? , Sosyal medyadan bildirim geldi mi ?\u201d gibi sorular sorarken buluyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar bizim gibi yapmay\u0131p ya gerekti\u011fi zamanda telefonlar\u0131n\u0131 kapat\u0131yorlar ya da hi\u00e7bir zaman ak\u0131ll\u0131 telefon sahibi olmuyorlar.<\/p>\n<p>Dikkat da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6nlemek i\u00e7in telefonunuzu ne zaman kapatman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini bilmeniz gerekiyor.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Ge\u00e7mi\u015f ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131yla ya\u015famazlar.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Asl\u0131nda bir\u00e7o\u011fumuzun hatas\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tekrar tekrar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek gelecekteki ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 engellememiz. Ama ge\u00e7mi\u015ftekilerle yetinmeyip daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 yapabilece\u011finizi bilmelisiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu noktada yapman\u0131z gereken, ge\u00e7mi\u015ftekileri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek zaman kaybetmek de\u011fil s\u00fcrekli ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131za yenilerini eklemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan nedir ? Zekalar\u0131 m\u0131 yoksa \u015fanslar\u0131 m\u0131? Kesin bir form\u00fcl\u00fc ve tan\u0131m\u0131 olmamakla beraber, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ki\u015filerin bir\u00e7ok ortak \u00f6zelli\u011fi vard\u0131r. Uzun y\u0131llar ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar hakk\u0131nda ara\u015ft\u0131rma yapan\u00a0Robert Greene, en son kitab\u0131 olan \u201cMastery\u201d de bu ki\u015filerin ortak \u00f6zelliklerine de\u011finmektedir. \u0130\u015fte ba\u015far\u0131 yolunda sa\u011flam ad\u0131mlar atmak isteyenlere, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olman\u0131n ipu\u00e7lar\u0131: [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8932"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8932\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8932"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}