{"id":9069,"date":"2024-11-24T09:59:17","date_gmt":"2024-03-13T03:22:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reelsindir.net\/?p=1055"},"modified":"2024-11-24T09:59:17","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T03:22:38","slug":"basarili-oldugunuzun-6-kaniti-kendinizi-ve-basarilarinizi-degerlendirin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/?p=9069","title":{"rendered":"Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 Oldu\u011funuzun 6 Kan\u0131t\u0131: Kendinizi ve Ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 De\u011ferlendirin"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u0131rsl\u0131 ve tutkulu olan insanlar hayat\u0131n\u0131n her d\u00f6neminde engellerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r ve ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z durumlar ya\u015far. Bu i\u015fin do\u011fas\u0131 gere\u011fi \u201cg\u00fcl\u00fc seven dikenine katlan\u0131r.\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00e7ok daha b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015feyler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirken maddeci bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin kurban\u0131 olmas\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc. Amerika\u2019da Strayer \u00dcniversitesinde yap\u0131lan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya g\u00f6re insanlar\u0131n %90\u2019\u0131 mutlulu\u011fun g\u00fcce,maddi g\u00fcce veya prestije oranla daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ba\u015far\u0131 g\u00f6stergesi oldu\u011fu ortaya konulmu\u015f.<\/p>\n

Ara\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n daha da derinine inersek insanlar\u0131n %67\u2019si ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 \u201caileyle ve arkada\u015flarla iyi ili\u015fkiler\u201d olarak tan\u0131mlam\u0131\u015f. %60\u2019\u0131 \u201cyapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fi sevmek\u201d, sadece %20\u2019si ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n \u201cmaddi g\u00fc\u00e7\u201d oldu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015far\u0131 denince insanlar genellikle \u201cb\u00fcy\u00fck evi yada pahal\u0131 arabas\u0131 olanlar ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r\u201d \u015feklinde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Sizde de bunlar olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece kendinizi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz ve bu da sizi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan so\u011futur. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki listeye bak\u0131n ve bunu tekrar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

Art\u0131k evrenin merkezi oldu\u011funuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyorsunuz.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Kendini ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 sanan ve egosu y\u00fcksek insanlar kendini d\u00fcnyan\u0131n merkezinde g\u00f6r\u00fcr. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n onun i\u00e7in yarat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n sadece \u00f6ylesine ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce insan\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 k\u0131lmaz. Sadece ego sahibi bir ki\u015filik oldu\u011funuzu kan\u0131tlar. As\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131 empati kurabilmektir. Di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin ya da hayallerinin de bizimkiler kadar \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu fark etti\u011fimiz an ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oluruz.<\/p>\n

Pozitif d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Umut ve iyimserlik mutlu ya\u015fam\u0131n temel ta\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz anda bu ikisi bitiyorsa kendinizi ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 saymak yanl\u0131\u015f olur. Ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131 her zaman her\u015feyin iyi yan\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek ve bununla mutlu olmak demektir.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n sonsuza kadar s\u00fcrmeyece\u011fini biliyorsunuz.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmayan tek ki\u015finin asl\u0131nda hi\u00e7 denemeyen ki\u015fi oldu\u011funu biliyorsunuz. Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar ufak bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131kta her\u015feyi b\u0131rakmaz. Hatalar\u0131n\u0131 bulur ve bunlardan \u00f6\u011frenece\u011fi dersleri al\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015fkas\u0131ndan yard\u0131m isteyebiliyorsunuz.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z veya bir\u015feyi yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anlarda ba\u015fkas\u0131ndan yard\u0131m istememek tam bir geli\u015fmemi\u015flik g\u00f6stergesidir. Ba\u015fkas\u0131ndan yard\u0131m istemek, ba\u015fkas\u0131na bir\u015feyi kan\u0131tlamay\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7okta umursam\u0131yorsunuz.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Ba\u015fkas\u0131na bir\u015feyi kan\u0131tlama \u00e7abas\u0131 i\u00e7erisindeyseniz her olayda onlar\u0131n ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc kafaya takars\u0131n\u0131z ve hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ona g\u00f6re \u015fekillendirirsiniz. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini sadece \u201conun fikri\u201d \u015feklinde alg\u0131larsan\u0131z as\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015fm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

De\u011fi\u015ftiremeyece\u011finiz \u015feylerin oldu\u011funu biliyorsunuz.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Gitti\u011finiz yolda bir kas\u0131rga oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsunuz. Bu kas\u0131rgay\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 biliyorsunuz. Kas\u0131rgan\u0131n geldi\u011fini ve buna kar\u015f\u0131 koyamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman yapman\u0131z gereken en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fey bunun etkilerini en aza indirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak olur.<\/p>\n

Kendinizle ilgili de\u011fi\u015ftirmeniz gereken y\u00f6nleniriz varsa ve de\u011fi\u015ftirebildiyseniz o zaman ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 say\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

H\u0131rsl\u0131 ve tutkulu olan insanlar hayat\u0131n\u0131n her d\u00f6neminde engellerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r ve ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z durumlar ya\u015far. Bu i\u015fin do\u011fas\u0131 gere\u011fi \u201cg\u00fcl\u00fc seven dikenine katlan\u0131r.\u201d. \u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00e7ok daha b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015feyler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirken maddeci bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin kurban\u0131 olmas\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc. Amerika\u2019da Strayer \u00dcniversitesinde yap\u0131lan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya g\u00f6re insanlar\u0131n %90\u2019\u0131 mutlulu\u011fun g\u00fcce,maddi g\u00fcce veya prestije oranla daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ba\u015far\u0131 g\u00f6stergesi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9069","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9069","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9069"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9069\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9069"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9069"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehmetabaci.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9069"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}